Magda Gerber's "Wants Nothing" vs. "Wants Something" Quality Time

On language development, the preservation of concentration, an appreciation for quiet solitude, and, always, sustainability in early parenting

Onlookers often urge new parents to ‘enjoy every moment’ because ‘it goes so fast.’ But let’s be real—not every moment is enjoyable, and this kind of anticipatory nostalgia can leave new parents feeling lousy when caregiving feels like a slow, laundry-heavy slog rather than lighthearted, memorable leisure train. This expectation to enjoy every moment ca…